That’s a Spicy Meatball! HA! (Ladies Only)
Posted on November 28, 2011*adult content*
Normally I don’t have to have such warnings on my posts, but some times, ya gotta do what ya gotta do, ya know what I’m sayin’?
I think you do. Today I wanted to talk about How to spice up your marriage a lil’ bit. Some times we get in a rut. Life gets busy with the job and kids and church and just life in general. Some times we just need a little something to to spice things up.
I found just the thing!! These fishnet panties ought to do the trick, don’t ya think?? Wowza!! I know they would get my hubby droolin’ for sure! 
TeeHee…lots of cute stuff over there, no??
Have fun, but not too much…
When I said “I do” I meant Forever…
Posted on October 31, 2011Then…
As of yesterday I have been married to the same person for 18 years. By many standards that is a long time. Considering half the people that get married this day and age end up getting divorce, I would say that is a long time. Of course, I don’t know how long the average marriage lasts. Hang on I will look that up….
OK, according to Google, the average marriage in the United States lasts 8 years. So The hubs and I have “out wed” the average marriage by ten years. Not bad, not bad at all.
Marriage is hard people. It’s not all candy and roses all up in here every day (or pretty much any day for that matter). It’s ugly and hard. It takes a lot of “I’m sorrys” and “I’ll do better next times”. We have called names and yelled and I think even thrown things. I can’t be sure, but I think so. I mean, for goodness sake, you can’t live with someone almost 20 years and not chuck something at his head at least once, right? Right?!?!
Marriage is about committing to your life, body and soul to someone forever “til death do us part”. People forget that part when it gets hard. I have forgotten that part sometimes. I have wanted to throw in the towel when it has gotten hard and I’m sure my husband has. Lord knows I have given him plenty of reasons to! He has definitely had it harder than me in this marriage, I will tell you that!
I am not perfect and neither is he, but we are perfect for each other! God has made that clear to us. And even if we weren’t, we became perfect for each other when we made our vows and become man and wife before God and everyone at our wedding.
But I believe God made my husband for me and me for my husband. Buster is the most patient man I know. He is so patient with me with all I have been through in my life and with my Bipolar and Borderline Pers0nality Disorder and other challenges I have. He has been patient with me with the issues I have had with my adoptive parents. He has been the best father our kids could ever ask for! I love that about him.
Now…
Where has the time gone? Doesn’t seem possible that 18 years have come and gone…
So, if you have someone who knows all about your pain-in-the-butt-ed-ness and still wants to call you his, hang onto him. And if you’ve got someone who’s worth fighting for, hang onto ‘em and fight for ‘em! Cause these days, they are hard to come by, someone who will stand by you and stick with you through the hard times…
I found mine more than 20 years ago and somehow, by the grace of God, he’s still here…
Til next time friends,
Free Dating?!?
Posted on October 13, 2011I’m bored… Buster is over pouring cement right now for the dam. Actually, I think they finished that yesterday, so I’m not sure exactly what he’s doing…He has been working 24/7 lately it seems like. Busy busy, that guy! And with me passing out again, I haven’t been able to do much. I have been working on trying to get my house clean today, as much as I can since I haven’t been doing much the last few days.
Yeah, so you don’t think my husband will mind if I try out a little free dating, do you? You know, while he’s busy pouring cement and whathaveyou? What? You think he’ll have a problem with that? Psshhh, he’s a very understanding guy! I just need someone to ya know, take me out to dinner, maybe a movie, take me shopping. Then they can bring me home so I can spend a romantic evening with my husband. Is that too much to ask?
I am a GENIUS, no?
The Best Man I Know…
Posted on May 31, 2011I am truly married to the best man I have ever known. He has been through so much with me over the last 20+ years and he just sticks by me through it all…
And it has been A LOT people!! A LOT!!
This last weekend, I had a very rough night Saturday night and he let me stay in bed Sunday morning, while he went up to camp and did my job for me!! What an awesome husband I have!! For realz!!
I am truly blessed to have such a man in my life!
Thanks honey for always being there when it counts and for having my back always!!! I love you more than words can say!!
Home…
Posted on May 18, 2011For those of you who haven’t figured it out yet, it takes a lot more than having the biggest, bestest, most high tech house on the block to make a house a home. It takes a lot more than fancy shower curtains and pretty nick knacks too!!
Some people just don’t get it. It doesn’t matter if you have all the latest home furnishings and high tech gadgets like the ones you see on Home Makeover and other shows on TV, but if you don’t have love and security, you’ve got nothing!!!
You can have the biggest house on the block with the fanciest things in it and if you don’t have love and commitment and trust, you may as well have a cardboard box. When will people learn this important fact?
“Things” are not evil or bad in and of themselves, but when we place the importance on these that we should have on our relationships with our families and with God, we are setting ourselves up for major disappointment!!
Just had to get that off my chest…
Genesis 3:16
Posted on April 27, 2011
informal wedding…
Posted on July 23, 2009I recently saw some pictures of someones wedding and the guy didn’t have a tuxedo on. Is this common place these days. I remember when I got married (a loooong time ago), it was like the “in thing” to wear a tux. You were a major loser if you didn’t. No offense to the non-tux wearer. I guess things are just more informal these days than they were years ago. I guess the whole wedding was informal, though. It was outside, barbecue style. I guess he would have looked funny wearing a tux?? What do you think?? I don’t know….
A Thousand Words Thursday…
Posted on January 29, 2009
me on my wedding day…15+ years ago. 18 years old. look at the look on busters face. that says it all…
Tuesday’s Tribute and Talk About Tuesday!!
Posted on January 27, 2009
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Yet Another Jay and Deb Production.
This weeks Tuesday’s Tribute AND Talk About Tuesday go out to Buster (my husband).
To the my best friend, my lover, my protector, my provider, my Buster!! You told me the first day you met me you loved me. I thought you were crazy!! I didn’t know you could love someone after only knowing them a day!! You saw something I didn’t and for that I will ever be thankful. You have been by my side through thick and thin. In good times and in BAD!!
You have been a good friend, a great lover, a wonderful father and a tremendous husband!! I could not ask for more in a husband than what you are. Though you are not perfect, you are perfect for me. I believe with all my heart that God made you for me and me for you!! I am so thankful that we have each other to go through this life with. You have been my strength when I had none. My sunshine when it was dark and cloudy. My joy when sorrow enveloped me. My constant companion. I am so thankful and proud to call you mine!!
To read more Tuesday’s Tributes or for more Talk About Tuesday fun visit those links back there, you won’t be sorry!!
WW/MamaKats Writing Assignment!! ;)
Posted on January 14, 2009Combining Wordful Wednesday and my writing assignment for MamaKat!!
For MamaKat’s writing assignment I chose #1….
This is just a candid picture of Buster (my husband) I took in the truck on our way somewhere?!? I am married to the most awesome guy on the planet. Though sometimes I want to throttle him, I don’t know what I would ever do without him. He has been through so much with me and he still loves me! Go figure.
I am married to the greatest, smartest, strongest, most caring, most generous man I have ever known. I am so blessed to be his wife!! We have been together for almost 20 years and married for 15. I can’t imagine my life without him.Through thick and thin , he has stuck by my side and I could never repay him for all he’s done for me. But he is not worried about any of that. He is just happy that I am his and he is mine. I don’t think I’ll ever understand why he is still here.
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Update!!!
Posted on December 20, 2008Buster is doing much better today!! He has eaten three meals today and even some ice cream and hasn’t thrown up at all. He hasn’t even needed his medication for the nausea!! His incision is a little tender but he has had a shower and removed his original dressing and everything looks great!! I’m so thankful to all of you for your prayers and also to God for taking care of my baby!! Buster is so important to me and he takes such good care of me all the time. It was odd having to do the “taking care of”. But I love taking care of my man . **dances around buster**
Wordful Wednesday!!
Posted on December 17, 2008
*Wordful Wednesday is for those of us that like to showcase a photo but that just can’t seem keep our mouths shut about it.
OK, so this is NOT my favorite photo of myself, but it does capture just how “in love” Buster and I are, even after almost (cause this was taken before out anniversary, it’s been 15 now) 15 years!!
For more Wordful Wednesday fun, visit Angie’s blog!!