After hearing what I did yesterday, I need to get this off my chest. I am sorry if this offends anyone, that is not my intention, but if I don’t get this out of my head and off my heart, it will continue to plague me with anger and hurt and depression. This is to all the bullies out there that think that they can just push people around and make fun of people and dog other people for whatever reason they do it. Are you trying to make yourself look good? Ease your own pain? Just make someone else miserable?? It isn’t necessary and it’s very destructive!!! God says we are to love others, build them up and help them along the way, not hate those that are a little different, tear each other down, and be a stumbling block!!
There was a young boy in our Church youth group. A funny but quiet boy. A shy boy. A boy with a ton of potential to do great things for the Lord. A boy who, when overwhelmed by them, took the problems in his life and turned them inward toward himself. A boy who was preyed upon by those around him. They saw his strengths and weaknesses and instead of focusing on his strengths and building him up with those, they chose to focus on his weaknesses and magnify them. They saw that he was different and instead of embracing his uniqueness and encouraging him in his endeavors, they tore him down and made him feel bad for it.
To those of you who bullied this shy, quiet, potential- filled, young man~ WHAT HAPPENED IS NOT YOUR FAULT. He made the choice he made, not you, BUT that being said, YOU SHOULD FEEL VERY ASHAMED!! Did you pick on him because he was a Christian? Because he wore glasses? Because he didn’t swear, smoke and do immoral things? Why did you feel the need to bully him? To make him feel unworthy to be your friend or to just be a normal kid enjoying his first year of high school??? WHY??
I think this hits a nerve with me because I too, was bullied in school. I was teased because I am adopted. I was teased because I wear glasses. I was teased because I was different. What’s wrong with being different?? If everyone was the same, do you know how boring that would be? Our differences are what make us unique and special, they should be celebrated, not picked on and ridiculed!! People felt like they could push me around and make me feel inferior because I was different.
This message is for all those out there still going through their personal pain and hurt…
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING DIFFERENT!!! God made each and everyone of us and God doesn’t make mistakes!! He is perfect and knows everything and He fearfully and wonderfully made you, the Bible says so!! So, the next time someone picks on you, tell them that you hope they find Jesus and that you hope He will save them and lift them up so that they don’t have to knock others down to lift themselves up!!!!
